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Starting uni (or progressing to another year) is exciting—but also a little overwhelming, especially when it comes to meeting new people. If you’re not someone who naturally dives into big social events, that’s completely okay, and the truth is, a lot of people feel the same way (even if they don’t show it).
The good news? Exeter has plenty of relaxed, low-pressure ways to connect with others, whether you're looking for a few close friends or just want to feel a little more at home.
1.Join a Society or a Group
Okay, this probably sounds like the obvious one—but hear me out. Societies are genuinely one of the easiest and most natural ways to meet people (especially those who share your interests). Whether you’re into books, baking, climbing, surfing or K-pop, there’s definitely a group for it at Exeter. It’s a great way to keep doing something you already enjoy or try something completely new. Plus, loads of them run super relaxed events like game nights, film screenings, or coffee meetups, so you can get involved at your own pace—no pressure at all.
2. Try a Peer Support Group
Sometimes it’s nice just to talk to someone who gets what you’re going through. Peer support groups are student-led spaces where you can chat (or just listen!) about uni life, mental health, or anything else that’s on your mind. They’re super welcoming and a great way to feel less alone.
3. Sign up for a Buddy Scheme
Lots of societies and courses run buddy schemes or “families” to help new students settle in. You’ll be paired with someone who's been in your shoes and can answer all the random questions you might not want to ask in a group chat. It’s a lovely way to meet people one-on-one, especially if big group settings aren’t your thing.
4. Pop into the Multi-Fath Centre
Whether you're religious or not, the Multi-Faith Centre is a genuinely peaceful and friendly space on campus. They host regular events, quiet hangouts, and tea/coffee socials. It’s a great place to connect with others in a calm, open environment.
5. Remember to Take Your Time
Honestly, it’s okay if you don’t make best friends in the first week (or month!). Everyone’s figuring things out in their own way, and there’s no one “right” timeline. Even small things—saying hi to someone in a seminar, going to a taster session—can lead to unexpected friendships.